Words a friend used... The weekend is here, planning my day, Shawn is an old friend of mine from a few years ago, off and on over the last couple of years we've tried to connect with each other... I guess tomorrow afternoon is the big day...
The plan is to meet them at a Dairy Queen (somewhere I never go to), and he lives on the edge of my city and I live right near downtown, and in his own words, his brother (who I also know) will just "goof around for awhile"... I will add that Shawn has at times come across to me as a slightly immature guy in the way he acts, and he's married, probably about 40...
Is that what people do? I tend to want a real purpose to get together, something to actually do... Like in the morning, I'm getting together with a friend (who is far more mature) over breakfast and an hour or two of photography... To me getting together to do some photography is a real purpose, something to do... "Goofing around" seems like doing nothing, it probably involves small talk I suppose, something every Aspie dreads... But maybe that is how a lot of the world is? And I'm just a far too serious Aspie who takes life far too seriously
I am more of that type of personality, I know that, and I usually like a specific task to do, even a Saturday spent wandering downtown with my camera in tow is a task to me, it also relaxes me at the same time...
Tomorrow could be interesting
The plan is to meet them at a Dairy Queen (somewhere I never go to), and he lives on the edge of my city and I live right near downtown, and in his own words, his brother (who I also know) will just "goof around for awhile"... I will add that Shawn has at times come across to me as a slightly immature guy in the way he acts, and he's married, probably about 40...
Is that what people do? I tend to want a real purpose to get together, something to actually do... Like in the morning, I'm getting together with a friend (who is far more mature) over breakfast and an hour or two of photography... To me getting together to do some photography is a real purpose, something to do... "Goofing around" seems like doing nothing, it probably involves small talk I suppose, something every Aspie dreads... But maybe that is how a lot of the world is? And I'm just a far too serious Aspie who takes life far too seriously
I am more of that type of personality, I know that, and I usually like a specific task to do, even a Saturday spent wandering downtown with my camera in tow is a task to me, it also relaxes me at the same time...
Tomorrow could be interesting