pamelaperejil
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I hurt someone, perhaps irrevocably. Didn't validate them when they needed validation. Didn't read the subtext. Didn't offer support and encouragement when they needed it.
Again.
I just said what I thought.
Are Aspies better at understanding other Aspies? Or are we just doomed to keep getting it wrong?
I tried to balance support and sympathy with sincerity and the possibility of change. They just wanted (needed?) to be coddled. They were hurting. They needed support. But how much support can I give when it comes at the expense of truth?
I wanted honesty and no barriers between us. They wanted to be accepted for who they are? Who is right and who is wrong?
Am I a bad person? Are they?
Again.
I just said what I thought.
Are Aspies better at understanding other Aspies? Or are we just doomed to keep getting it wrong?
I tried to balance support and sympathy with sincerity and the possibility of change. They just wanted (needed?) to be coddled. They were hurting. They needed support. But how much support can I give when it comes at the expense of truth?
I wanted honesty and no barriers between us. They wanted to be accepted for who they are? Who is right and who is wrong?
Am I a bad person? Are they?