I've been a nervous wreck all week because I'm dreading this weekend. Two of my granddaughters are in cheer/dance with the same team that my kids grew up in. They have their local competition Sunday and I want to see them compete, but it involves finding the location and driving there (driving an hour). It means getting up earlier than my usual to give myself time to get ready and means I have to leave here about the time I'm usually getting up - and the difficulty getting to sleep this week, that is not going to be easy. It means fighting the crowd, finding my daughter and her family (and you know how hard that can be in a crowd with no faces) to sit with. It's loud and everyone's emotions are sky high. And it's going to bring back memories, so I may get teary-eyed.
I have told my daughter that if she needs me to babysit the 4 week old baby I would. She said the girls really want me to go but she would let me know. Its now in 3 days and I still don't know if I'm babysitting or going to the competition. And after agreeing to babysit if needed, I now realize that I would have to be there even earlier because they will need to leave even earlier to get the girls there - so they would need to leave there about the time I would leave here if I go to the competition, which is already early for me. Not knowing which I'm doing seems to have doubled the anxiety because now instead of dreading just the one things, I'm dreading either or - along with not knowing.
I hate morning things anyway, because with IBS, you can't just jump out of bed and go.
How do others deal with this type of stuff? (The reason I have a hard time committing to being somewhere at a certain time - never know how I'm going to be feeling, especially mornings.)
I have told my daughter that if she needs me to babysit the 4 week old baby I would. She said the girls really want me to go but she would let me know. Its now in 3 days and I still don't know if I'm babysitting or going to the competition. And after agreeing to babysit if needed, I now realize that I would have to be there even earlier because they will need to leave even earlier to get the girls there - so they would need to leave there about the time I would leave here if I go to the competition, which is already early for me. Not knowing which I'm doing seems to have doubled the anxiety because now instead of dreading just the one things, I'm dreading either or - along with not knowing.
I hate morning things anyway, because with IBS, you can't just jump out of bed and go.
How do others deal with this type of stuff? (The reason I have a hard time committing to being somewhere at a certain time - never know how I'm going to be feeling, especially mornings.)