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Recent content by Susie

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    Advice please !

    Thanks for that but no that’s wrong . HE has made it clear in the past he just sees me as a friend with nothing more , has no romantic feelings at all for me . We have had this discussion . It is just friends .. he is not attracted to me . He seems to have just had enough of my affection and...
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    Advice please !

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    Advice please !

    Thanks . To be honest tho I don’t think my friendship is wanted any more . I feel like giving up . Since Christmas my Aspie friend has been gradually reducing contact and changing settings on phone so I can no longer see when they are online . When I joked can you possibly disappear anymore he...
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    Advice please !

    Sorry I mis quoted that.. he says of course I do . But he has admitted he lies sometimes about things for an easy life ! His tone is very monotone and his expression I very rigid and non Moving .. stony almost but he does smile too . Thanks for your help I must not take it personally . Another...
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    Advice please !

    Thank you everyone .. your answers are so informative . I am determined to be a good friend as I care for him . His condition makes him unique and I have said he should embrace his difference as it makes him unique and a lot of NT people are dull ! He said my support has helped him To accept it...
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    Advice please !

    Yes he listens politely and patiently , rarely makes a comment or asks any questions ever , then goes back to talking about himself. Shows very little interest in my life at all ,but is quite interested in talking about psychological observations of people’s lives . Has also quite extraordinary...
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    Advice please !

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    Advice please !

    Thanks so much everyone such informative helpful replies! I am learning to try to accept and the missionary complex idea was very helpful . Plus yes the intense need for privacy . I think all he can do is go to work and spend the whole weekend in isolation to re charge . I do not discuss my...
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    Advice please !

    I know this person takes anti depressants and is quite isolated . I just want to help but basically I suppose I don’t want to be a pest . It is interesting that you say that friends come to you .. I always suggest a meet up or a coffee and a chat and he seems genuinely pleased to see me and...
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    Advice please !

    Thank you all . He wants to Have relationships and a family and I believe is lonely at times and says I couldn’t imagine what it’s like to be him . I do Visit for tea at times and we have a good chat in that he opens up a bit about his problems . But what I find odd is that the conversation is...
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    Advice please !

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    Advice please !

    Hi I have a friend who is “odd”. Keeps themselves very much to themselves , avoids social scenes and has few friends just work colleagues . He is male aged 25 . Wears a hat a lot and has some odd habits and interests! Really old fashioned in an old man way and eats same food daily .Anything...
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