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Recent content by SunnyDay16

  1. SunnyDay16

    Are you "noticeably autistic"?

    Kind of? At first glance, I probably look like the average woman. But in social situations the autism shows, especially when I'm tired or overwhelmed. I can mask to an extent, but it's the little gestures and facial expressions that give it away. I think other women pick up on it more than men.
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    Want emotional connection but can't make them

    It's a balance. Being too vulnerable with the wrong person can be dangerous, and I'm definitely not advocating for that. All I'm saying is that if the other person seems to be opening up to you a little, then you can reciprocate to see if they're someone you can have a deeper bond with...
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    Want emotional connection but can't make them

    If you want to make lasting emotional connections with people, you have to be open and vulnerable to them. You get what you give, basically. If you are emotionally closed off and cold, that's what people are likely going to give back to you. It's supposed to be a process. You meet someone and...
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    I broke up with my girlfriend because she overcommunicates and wouldn't give me space

    Emotionally detached people tend to attract the opposite side of the spectrum: overly clingy, emotionally enmeshed kind of people. Neither of these extremes are healthy, especially when it comes to relationships. In order to establish trust and intimacy, you have to be open with your emotions...
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    Are you Childfree?

    Right. Selfish doesn't always equal bad. A lot of the things we do are inherently selfish, but it doesn't mean they are harmful.
  6. SunnyDay16

    Am I being selfish?

    Well, you won't be able to please everyone. I think the people to stick around with are the people who at least try to understand where you're coming from.
  7. SunnyDay16

    Am I being selfish?

    Maybe you come across selfish without realizing it. If it helps, maybe tell people you are autistic, so they know it's not intentional on your part.
  8. SunnyDay16

    Hi there

    Hi Heather. Welcome
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    Introducing Me

    Hey Emma and welcome :) Lots of thoughtful people here.
  10. SunnyDay16

    If you love someone, what would make you push them away?

    Things people do that can push me away from them: Constant negativity and complaining Refusal to take some responsibility for their lives Inability to talk about anything other than a certain topic Ignoring my clearly set boundaries Mean & manipulative behavior
  11. SunnyDay16

    Aspies and Dry People

    Some people are jerks until you get to know them and earn their trust. Then again, some people are just jerks no matter what.
  12. SunnyDay16

    You shouldn't ignore your loneliness

    I'm sorry that the people you have to interact with are assholes. That can really taint your view on humanity, and I can't blame you for thinking little of it. The good side is, I'm glad you're able to find solace on this forum.
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    You shouldn't ignore your loneliness

    Loneliness usually encompasses different feelings and emotions. Depression, anxiety, sadness, frustration, self-loathing, emptiness, etc. It can very from person to person, but the common root of it is because the person is not getting enough meaningful social interaction.
  14. SunnyDay16

    You shouldn't ignore your loneliness

    I understand that. It takes two to form a friendship. And yeah, interacting with people on the internet is still social interaction, but real world social interaction is important too. Not everyone is able to have internet access.
  15. SunnyDay16

    You shouldn't ignore your loneliness

    This is kind of a rant, directed at nobody in particular. The common advice it seems when it comes to loneliness and being lonely is to just brush it off, distract yourself, or get used to it. None of these approaches are helpful when it comes to being lonely. Being alone and being lonely are...
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