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Recent content by SpeckledTuna

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    I've thought about it but I don't know how he would react. Even now we're being nice and talking and coexisting but he still looks so dead behind the eyes and he's shut himself into gaming completely.
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    Has anyone heard of anhedonia? I came across it and it seems like a lot of his emotional distress and empty feelings could be correlated with that.
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    He's never really had any help with this though. He comes from a family that's not very emotional and watched his mother get abused when he was a preteen. I sincerely hope he feels better. If he was acting like himself, and he told me all of this, I would probably take it for what it is. But...
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    Right. I didn't want to over do my original post as it was already pretty lengthy. I just needed information. I'm not very educated when it comes to Aspergers so I had no way of knowing what was deemed as common or what to do in these kinds of situations. I got a lot of insight from this post...
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    I'm sorry if it seems that way. I'm not trying to make excuses for him. I'm fully aware that what he did was messed up and incredibly mean. But I'm bipolar, I would never want to be completely judged and pushed outside because of a meltdown. So I'm trying to understand, which is why I made the...
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    I can understand that. And to be fair I think he only said that because I was hounding him for information. I was upset and I yelled and cried and demanded he tell me. I had every right to question where he was, but I can be honest and say I should have went about it in a better manner. He...
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    I give him space now. I didn't understand in the beginning but now that I do I always hang out in the bedroom which is where most of my stuff is anyway. Did it ever get to the point for you that you felt like you lost feeling for your girlfriend because you weren't getting that space and you had...
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    I think he needs help with anxiety. He gets anxious over everything. He bites the tips of jos thumbs raw because he gets so anxious over thinks things. It could be what game to play, or figuring out a strategy in a game, or texting a friend he's had for years and he'll still be really anxious.
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    Thank you. It's really hard. I've been conflicted about whether or not I should wait and see if it passes. He says he wants me to leave, but then says he doesn't want to break up with me because he's not sure if he'll regret it, and if he does he doesn't want to hurt me again. I'm not the type...
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    I don't think he would be open to medication. I think if I could really talk to him about therapy he would eventually see that it would be good. So I'm going to keep trying for that, and if they think medicine is necessary they can push it. I don't want to be too overbearing with him though. I...
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    This gives me hope. Like maybe holding out a little longer might be worth it. Thank you for your response. I really appreciate it.
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    I'm going to keep trying for therapy. He isn't really open to any kind of treatment, but he seemed less resilient to it last night. Sex is not super important to me. He actually isn't super sexual, so we don't have sex a lot. But when we do it's very intimate and engaging. So I don't worry about...
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    I keep thinking it's work. He's adamant it's not. Did you say mean things to your wife when you were having a hard time? And how did you overcome it?
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    It bothers me, but it doesn't. He always sat around all the time and would randomly tell how pretty or beautiful he thought I was. He may not feel attraction for me now, but that doesn't mean he does in general. We have really intimate sex, and are usually pretty close so it's not a concern of...
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    Lol we get a long great. We talk too each other about everything and are always showing each other new videos and articles. We have a lot of the same interests though. I'm thankful for that.
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