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Recent content by Oodee

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    Do You Hold Grudges?

    My bf is really holding on to grudges, and every day 1he thinks people who have wronged him in the past and uses a lot of time plotting his revenge. I surely can hold a grudge myself, but not like him. I think it's affecting his life way too much and isn't healthy, and so I hope that if someone...
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    Things people with Aspergers need to be told

    I'm NT so i'll comment from slightly different perspective, and tell you what I wish my aspie boyfriend would know. I wish he knew, that even if he feels different, there's nothing wrong with him. I wish he knew that when someone in the past has told him that he's a retard, it tells a lot more...
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    Is my friend mad at me?

    If she was someone really dear and something like this was bothering me, I would probably just take the easiest route and by her that damn 25$ parking pass myself. Then I would give it to her as a gift, with a card that says something like "Sorry I couldn't help, I hope this does it instead of...
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    Answer a QUESTION with a QUESTION

    Can we know simply by searching our inner selves?
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    The Post a Photo of Yourself Thread

    This is me yesterday.
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    Not easy for me to maintain female friendships

    I'm NT so I can't relate to that part that your an aspie, but I can relate to the part where being friends with women is hard. It's just so much work when you have to analyze every single word before you say them, so you won't end up pissing them off. And even if you do that, most likely at some...
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    How to know if an aspie guy is into you?

    It's always scary when you have feelings for someone and don't know how they feel about you. I think this is universal and it doesn't matter are the people in question auties on NTs, it's always as hard. My advice would be the same as some others, just ask him. A while back I reconnected with...
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    I can't talk to my wife about my Aspergers

    I'm sorry about your situation too. Some people seem to think that if you don't say something out loud, then it isn't true, and maybe that's the case with your wife. I think it's great that my bf told me about his aspergers on our first "date" (we were at playground with my kid, so not really a...
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    How to write less formally?

    At first it was really weird for me, that my bf sometimes writes my name on the texts he sends me. Like he would start with "Hi Outi" etc. Then I just got used to it. So he is a formal writer too. Had the question been about correspondance with friends, I would have suggested you use...
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    I feel there is nothing left for me

    As a woman I mostly came to comment about those ridiculous notions, that all women want men with lots of money, big muscles and huge dick. I have been in many relationships, and none of those things have never been a factor in me starting a relationship with someone. My current boyfriend is a...
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    Betrayed by friend

    I knew it would be helpful to ask you all for your insights! It didn't even cross my mind, that the trust-thing could be about the words and not the people, so I was taking it really personally. Thank you so much! Of course only he knows how things truly are, but this would really make sense and...
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    Betrayed by friend

    In all our "important" communication I try to be as precise and on point as I can, since I don't want to make things harder by making him read between lines, because I have read that this might be especially hard for aspies. I always try to voice my concerns and tell him if there is something...
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    Betrayed by friend

    I completely agree that he never was a real friend in the first place. It made me so confused, when my bf whom I've known for years, chose to first believe his word over mine, especially considering that I have never lied to him about anything and he knows this. It was like he was on some kind...
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    Betrayed by friend

    I'm so freaking mad about all of this and it is really hard for me to not show all my frustration and negative feelings that I have towards this "friend" of his. We live in a small town, so our circle of friends is also pretty small and it's just not possible to not see this lying sack of crap...
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    Betrayed by friend

    He is a diagnosed aspie and I have read loads of topics hereI have read a lot from here, from wp and psychology articles, and asked things from my own therapist and of course my bf. So I'm really trying my best to acquire information. It's like 3am here in Finland, so maybe my wording is some...
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