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Recent content by mourn

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    Socially Awkward NT dating Male w/ Aspergers HELP w/ the Silence

    This actually really helped. Honestly since finding this website I’ve grown to trust that my partner just needs space and isn’t abandoning me. I’ve learned to better understand him and even though we’re still not talking, I feel calm just chilling until we do. I still offer that support if he...
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    Socially Awkward NT dating Male w/ Aspergers HELP w/ the Silence

    Thank you so much for the advice. I’m always scared that I’ll come off as a pest. The last thing I left it as was that I was sorry if he felt overwhelmed and that I’m here for him and like spending time with him and I understand that he’s here for me. I sent that today earlier. Would you...
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    Socially Awkward NT dating Male w/ Aspergers HELP w/ the Silence

    Thanks, you’re right. I just got so scared, but I should’ve done research instead and trusted him and our relationship. I’ve learned to just go with the flow since reading other posts on the forum. Now I’m just scared that I’ve scared him off with pressuring him and that my anxiety ruined...
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    Socially Awkward NT dating Male w/ Aspergers HELP w/ the Silence

    Very true. I know the issue is mostly mine. Anxiety and trust is a very fine line I’d think. Living in a household where most of my family would make me question if people meant what they said and had me doubting myself constantly. And then dealing with relationships where I was constantly lied...
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    Socially Awkward NT dating Male w/ Aspergers HELP w/ the Silence

    Yuh-oh :S should I just explain why I unfollowed him? I feel like that’d help instead of just re-following. I’m just trying to remedy the situation. Get him to open up again.
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    Socially Awkward NT dating Male w/ Aspergers HELP w/ the Silence

    I unfollowed him from Instagram in order to show that I’m giving him his space.
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    Socially Awkward NT dating Male w/ Aspergers HELP w/ the Silence

    Yeah I decided to give him his space, wont be messaging him anymore. I just needed answers, so I’m hoping he’d understand that. But yeah, I decided to give him space and when we eventually talk I’m going to be open about my feelings because I believe we can work through this.
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    Socially Awkward NT dating Male w/ Aspergers HELP w/ the Silence

    Thank you for your response this does make me feel a bit better. I think he must have shut down. I’m just scared that since he blocked me over the phone (I think since it goes to voicemail) that he’s sick of me, but I’m guessing blocking people out is part of the shut down?
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    Socially Awkward NT dating Male w/ Aspergers HELP w/ the Silence

    [Very long, I’m sorry, but could really use some help] Hello all, So I’ve done research of my own, but having severe anxiety (I’m on medication) and depression I often forget to think rationally about things and I guess I’m just looking for reassurance or something. I’m NT for the most part...
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