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Recent content by JohnDoeeoDnhoJ

  1. J

    I had a fight with a friend of mine who has autism and now I dont trust him anymore. Any advice?

    the fact that you can admit that about yourself even though the person you hurt cant see this thread shows that you probably have changed for the better. thanks for the advice as well :)
  2. J

    I had a fight with a friend of mine who has autism and now I dont trust him anymore. Any advice?

    I remember your account however i dont remember what you said so its fine. I got really bad OCD about this so I need affirmation from other people to know what im doing is wrong or right. I wasnt aware that the implication was there last time so let me make it clear, as of right now i have no...
  3. J

    I had a fight with a friend of mine who has autism and now I dont trust him anymore. Any advice?

    thanks for replying :) and the feedback. i should clarify, hes a muslim and in islam, you cannot be blamed for the choices of others. i think he was under the impression that that wasnt the case and took his anger out on me because of it so yeah. he apologised like i said so i would assume he...
  4. J

    I had a fight with a friend of mine who has autism and now I dont trust him anymore. Any advice?

    9-10 months ago i told my very religious friend that i wasnt religious anymore and he seemed fine with it but then lashed out like 2 weeks later about how he'll be blamed and will go to hell because im agnostic. he also has autism so idk if this behaviour is related to that in some way (ik...
  5. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    to see if people would agree with me or not and if not, what advice they would give me. a lot of people have asked me to be more understanding and to be open minded, which is advice im taking into account. what I won't do however is to knowingly be friends with someone who i suspect is...
  6. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    yh well if you can stick around someone who has indications of being mysogynistic, homophobic and self centered but now claims they have changed even though you don't trust them then good on you. I can't do that, especially since I am bisexual and agnostic and I don't trust him to keep that...
  7. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    in what way?
  8. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    when you have views based on religion i can understand. but that doesn't mean I'll stick around any longer if its something really bad. in my eyes, a lot of his views are toxic which is why i try to make him understand why they can be hurtful or insensitive. sure not everyone should have pc...
  9. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    tbh i don't want to keep it. it causes me stress and frustration but at the same time i wanna be fair to the guy and give him a chance while also keeping my distance. the reason why i asked was to see if what i was doing was right or wrong or if i was being a dick to him in some ways
  10. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    i meam tbh it IS about wanting to understand them but also on how to deal with my situation in general. there's an amalgamation of issues that make it hard for me to like him as a person. first, of course trust issues. second, he isn't really on the same wavelength as me when it comes to social...
  11. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    thanks for replying. its gotten to the point where now i feel guilty for not trusting him in case he is actually being genuine but at the same time, i just think its too much of a risk to trust him fully. at this point in time anyway. now, whenever he has an opinion that could be considered bad...
  12. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    yes. yes i would. don't you think I'm doing just that by actually trying to do my research about autism? don't you think I'm doing just that by making this post? I was asking for advice on my particular situation so if you have any, let me know.
  13. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    the reason why i asked in these forums was to know if his behaviour is actually a problem or if its just his autism. my intent wasn't to criticise autism in this post and i understand why it would seem that way so im sorry. i have done some research on autism but the symptoms can be so broad...
  14. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    thanks for the reply. i get what you're saying but at the same time, if these 'views' are strictly anti-pc and can be hurtful to other people, is it really so bad that he should try and change them. of course if by 'views' you mean i ask him to change everything about himself, even stuff that is...
  15. J

    Advice for dealing with someone with autism.

    alright thanks :). the issue is I have a major OCD episode about this right now about how i might be being an asshole to him and how the reason i don't like him is subconsciously because i think hes beneath me in status and its something to do with narcissism. honestly, i have had issues with...
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