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Recent content by girlwonders

  1. girlwonders

    Im still around... just quiet :D

    Im still around... just quiet :D
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    No. It did not go the way things were planned. It went straight to hell - fast. At least its...

    No. It did not go the way things were planned. It went straight to hell - fast. At least its over. Healing now. back in time
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    For my Birthday I received - clarity - and I am basking in the sunshine of fresh hope.

    For my Birthday I received - clarity - and I am basking in the sunshine of fresh hope.
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    No Orphan you said nothing wrong. She probably deleted her posts because she was (rightfully) embarrassed by her words.
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    <3 :D <3
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    Insults are not arguments, when people resort to insults and personal abuses, then, they have run out of logic - Okeke Vincent C
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    Who said I was NT? My high horse is comfortable and gives me an excellent view. “When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser.” ― Socrates
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    Sure. Sure. If thats what makes you feel better. Keep slamming people that were trying to help you like a child who doesnt like what mom says. Still wont change anything in your relationship. And when he shuts down and you are all mad at him - please remember that disgusting stranger who tried...
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    Did I say there was something wrong with improving yourself? Ever? Not at all. Did I say that people with Aspergers were unable to improve themselves? Not once. Clearly you are struggling to understand the concept of **unconditional love** My mind is not closed. You are just not recieving what...
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    Twilight said "The thing is, he's come a long my way since we first met. In the beginning he was not affectionate at all, now he seems to have little problem with that. His overall communication has improved as well, it's just not consistent (and maybe never will be). I think the fact that he...
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    It depends on what you view your role, and how you want to express your love for a person. For me, it is about giving a person what they need. In my xaspie and alot of aspies cases (im guessing) feeling accepted is something that is extremely rare for them. I have never considered it my job, as...
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    Mixed Messages

    @nagibator Dude. You are more than a little off-base. Firstly - My (now deleted post) was written during an extremely emotional time, something you might not understand, but when your body fills with competing hormones and you are struggling, for some of us, emotions can get pretty high. Its...
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    This. Right there. To any NT that is going to be in a relationship with an Aspie. My xaspie and I went to school together from kindergarten until he graduated out early. When we reconnected later, and he told me about his late adult diagnoses and a lot of things I recalled from our growing...
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    How To Proceed With My Aspie?

    Also do some googling on attachment disorders in Adults. Its quite eye opening - You may find, as i have, that this issue is not just your aspies problem. Sounds like you both might have insecure attachments and it take some work and self discovery to work through these. Love is a funny thing...
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    How To Proceed With My Aspie?

    You need to do some serious thinking.... Speaking as a woman who **really really** has been there, you need to answer a few questions about weather or not this is the man for you, or, if you are just comfortable with him and dont really want to go through the work of getting to know someone...
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