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    Really need your advice please?

    How thoughtful to send that link! Very helpful :))) xe thank you!!! X
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    Really need your advice please?

    Thank you again for your insight and support! You are doing a great job on here :)) I lost count of the hundreds of people (mostly female) asking for advice on other forums- when I was searching myself- saying they had been dumped, ex had gone online dating etc but STILL trying to justify...
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    Really need your advice please?

    Thanks for your kind words. My neighbour (and friend) popped in to visit as she saw my blinds were closed and I hadn't been outside! She is a relationship therapist and trained counsellor so the chat with her was life-changing. She met my ex as he practically moved in as I said, and knew...
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    Really need your advice please?

    Thank you for your advice. I could take the silence and uncertainty no longer, so I sent him a whatsapp on Friday and asked him if he could call me when convenient. He replied straight away with 'hi everything ok?' (First I've heard from him in over 2 wks) I replied 'yes everything is...
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    Really need your advice please?

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    Really need your advice please?

    Hi again I still had no reply at all from my ex. I sent a short friendly message 2 days ago asking how he was and telling him a few funny things about the work project he was helping me with before he left. (In the hope he would find it easier to respond to than my 'can we try to sort things...
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    Really need your advice please?

    Wow. Thank you so much for these replies! I totally agree that we simply didn't have enough time to know each other! To learn and grow and understand each other as a couple Any spectrum 'traits' definitely are secondary to this story! I guess my main regret is not knowing or...
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    Really need your advice please?

    Thank you so much! I was so undecided as to whether to just be 'light' and avoid heavy emotional stuff. But lots of threads seemed to suggest that it was important to reassure the person you had used the time to reflect and as a result had a better understanding of the person. Ie wouldn't...
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    Really need your advice please?

    Dear forum This is my very first post and I would like to start by saying how helpful your stories and advice have been in the past few weeks since I first began searching for some guidance on my em ex BF who I strongly suspect is on the asbergers spectrum. I would be grateful fur any advice...
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