I would define small talk (for me) as idle chat about nothing between people not about a common or specific topic.
My experience feels like I'm feeding the situation itself. I'm not doing it for myself, and I'd love to have avoided the situation altogether. Now I'm hoping to feed the situation the acceptable words in order to not appear weird or upset the other person, and draw the situation to a close.
What I find interesting is that I'm not doing it for myself OR the other person, meaning it's wholly pointless. My focus is on the situation itself, and providing for its needs.
If I could have got away with a smile and a "Hi", we'd all have been better off.
My experience feels like I'm feeding the situation itself. I'm not doing it for myself, and I'd love to have avoided the situation altogether. Now I'm hoping to feed the situation the acceptable words in order to not appear weird or upset the other person, and draw the situation to a close.
What I find interesting is that I'm not doing it for myself OR the other person, meaning it's wholly pointless. My focus is on the situation itself, and providing for its needs.
If I could have got away with a smile and a "Hi", we'd all have been better off.