I suspect my 10 year old son may be aspie and I have arranged for him to do testing. We have our first meeting with the Psychologist in 10 days. My problem is I have no idea what to say to my son because he doesn't have any idea about this. I don't want to set him off or freak him out and I also don't want him to feel betrayed or not trust me. I really don't like this whole process of labeling etc. I am worried that we'll go through all this and not get a diagnosis but my son will never be the same again. This is what happened with my daughter. I still think she might be aspie but that's a whole other story. I want to make sure I do this right with him and I really don't know what words to use. He's had some social skill issues at school and I am thinking about relating it back to that but I think he will deny the problem and say everything is resolved via school where he is seeing the counselor weekly. Please help with ideas of how to explain this all to him.