OnEdge
Well-Known Member
Hey all,
Lately i have been considering just going mute.
I think in doing this would solve so many problems, no more dealing with the social niceties, or any social aspects. I do try to be social, especially since my job requires it, but i can never do it right. Meaning i always get complants (within the job), which to me are about pointless things, like not greeting someone made them feel unwelcome even though they are being hypocrites as they didnt greet me either, difference is i really dont care if people greet me or not. I tend to not initiate conversations (which gets me the complaints of 'you never say anything if we dont say something first'), i wait so i can respond in the same manner. For example, someone says hi to me, i say hi back, they say good morning, i say morning back. I even get complaints when i take initiate and say hi to people first, as they then respond in a very judgemental tone because i didnt say it 'properly'.
So my point is no matter what i do, what i say, how i say it, it is never good enough so whats the point in talking at all. Other than work, i dont think it would affect my personal life as i spend most of my free time shut in my room anyway.
I would appreciate any thoughts on this matter.
Lately i have been considering just going mute.
I think in doing this would solve so many problems, no more dealing with the social niceties, or any social aspects. I do try to be social, especially since my job requires it, but i can never do it right. Meaning i always get complants (within the job), which to me are about pointless things, like not greeting someone made them feel unwelcome even though they are being hypocrites as they didnt greet me either, difference is i really dont care if people greet me or not. I tend to not initiate conversations (which gets me the complaints of 'you never say anything if we dont say something first'), i wait so i can respond in the same manner. For example, someone says hi to me, i say hi back, they say good morning, i say morning back. I even get complaints when i take initiate and say hi to people first, as they then respond in a very judgemental tone because i didnt say it 'properly'.
So my point is no matter what i do, what i say, how i say it, it is never good enough so whats the point in talking at all. Other than work, i dont think it would affect my personal life as i spend most of my free time shut in my room anyway.
I would appreciate any thoughts on this matter.