I always wonder about this, especially in certain circumstances.
I have been advised by a friend to hold off on talking about this right away with new people I meet.
For example, I have recently met a woman. We have been talking via email. She is a very sweet and kind person.
We are going on our first date next month for my birthday which is really exciting, BUT...
I know having Aspergers Syndrome is not something I will most likely bring up on our first date (And, honestly, so I have been told, I do not "seem" to have Aspergers upon first getting to know me), but, in fact, I do have it and the symptoms will eventually reveal themselves to someone else.
If something was to really grow between me and this girl, a romantic relationship, she would eventually find out and I feel like not immediately being up front about it is like I am trying to hide it or that I would be lying to her.
I am more than happy to announce to the world that I'm an Aspie, but many in the world do not understand nor accept it. I do not wish to scare this girl away.
I have been advised by a friend to hold off on talking about this right away with new people I meet.
For example, I have recently met a woman. We have been talking via email. She is a very sweet and kind person.
We are going on our first date next month for my birthday which is really exciting, BUT...
I know having Aspergers Syndrome is not something I will most likely bring up on our first date (And, honestly, so I have been told, I do not "seem" to have Aspergers upon first getting to know me), but, in fact, I do have it and the symptoms will eventually reveal themselves to someone else.
If something was to really grow between me and this girl, a romantic relationship, she would eventually find out and I feel like not immediately being up front about it is like I am trying to hide it or that I would be lying to her.
I am more than happy to announce to the world that I'm an Aspie, but many in the world do not understand nor accept it. I do not wish to scare this girl away.