As an autistic, the best skill I can rock at is:
Appreciating myself the way I am, *especially* including my autism.
I never sit around sad that I'm autistic.
I never "feel bad that I don't fit in." I'm not *supposed* to fit in.
I'm also not designed to have it easy with relationships, buttoning a button, or speaking during stress.
While I work, I'm not able to be entirely self-supporting, because I was not designed to meet the neurotypical model of success.
And, that's okay.
I am supposed to be autistic. I'm here to indicate to society that square pegs are fine the way we are, and do best without being forced into those round holes.
I'm not going to ever fit into society's box. It's up to me to show that _there is no box._ Yes, society is designed for NTs. Things change as societies develop. Remember before there were curb cuts? Society is learning to appreciate our neurotype.
I'm supposed to have epic pattern recognition talents.
I am designed to have a childlike sense of wonder.
I'm supposed to have phenomenal hyperfocus, amplified sensory sensitivities, compelling special interests, and some amazing abilities that will only ever be noticed and recognized by those treasured in my inner circle.
Might it be nice to be smooth in relationships, have a career, and rock some awesome life skills? Yep. Love to ditch the meltdowns, too.
But, I'd rather be me, with the atypical skills I have. I'd rather be autistic. This is a beautiful neurotype.