Cali Cat
Femme Ferale
This question was asked by another member in another thread. I thought it seemed like a question worthy of its own thread.
So, ladies, here's an opportunity to state your opinion on what constitutes a "nice" guy in the romantic sense. Perhaps your thoughts on this will be of benefit to some of our gentleman members who are unsure what this term implies from a woman's perspective.
I'll start with my personal belief. A nice guy is one who is respectful, courteous, thoughtful, kind, loyal and genuine. He can be a smartass from hell and opinionated as all get-out, but if he meets the criteria above, he still falls into the "nice" category with me.
For me, it's more about a man's actions than his words anyway. If he treats me well and doesn't give cause to mistrust him or his intentions, then what he says isn't a huge factor.
Listen to me when I'm talking, be interested in my well-being, tip the waitress fairly, talk to the animals, stand by a set of principles. Those things are more important to being a "nice" guy than telling me whatever a guy thinks I want to hear.
So, ladies, here's an opportunity to state your opinion on what constitutes a "nice" guy in the romantic sense. Perhaps your thoughts on this will be of benefit to some of our gentleman members who are unsure what this term implies from a woman's perspective.
I'll start with my personal belief. A nice guy is one who is respectful, courteous, thoughtful, kind, loyal and genuine. He can be a smartass from hell and opinionated as all get-out, but if he meets the criteria above, he still falls into the "nice" category with me.
For me, it's more about a man's actions than his words anyway. If he treats me well and doesn't give cause to mistrust him or his intentions, then what he says isn't a huge factor.
Listen to me when I'm talking, be interested in my well-being, tip the waitress fairly, talk to the animals, stand by a set of principles. Those things are more important to being a "nice" guy than telling me whatever a guy thinks I want to hear.