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Don't Be Shy To Introduce Yourself

Hi I am Rose, I started to suspect I had Asperger's several years ago. Both of my daughters we're diagnosed two years ago. I decided to start looking into different forums because it has become increasingly obvious that I am not functioning as well at work as I thought.
 
Hello,
My name is Jessica..I do not have a known diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Disorder or Asperger's Syndrome. I am reaching out to people because I am not sure whether or not to get a diagnosis. When I researched about the female traits and symptoms and taken the tests it always was a possibility of autism but it is hard to find it in all women. The spectrum is so wide and I really do want an answer and just to ask people how they cope with their daily struggles. I function in life and have had some friends, boyfriends though who were only manipulative or verbally abusive/childish. I get taken advantage of alot, I am turning 28 in May. In a conversation I have a hard time knowing when it is my turn I often hear that I go off on another route of conversation. Since I was about 3, I have had some sound sensitivity like certain pitch noises and some sudden loud sounds. I jump up and down and flap my hands/arms in the mirror still to this day. I have listened to the same song over and over since 8th grade. I do not understand alot of jokes and I have copied friends voice tones and facial expressions in the mirror over the years too. Terrible at algebra processing it all because theres too many kinds of problems to remember but I can remember I obsessed over an actress and her fictional characters for a few years remembering all about her as well as dressing like her in 9th grade/halloween. My fears are childish, like I have to keep the door open when im sleeping and I sometimes feel I need to climb in bed with my mother. English has been a strong point in school for me as well as factual science. I remember everyones birthdays too and have a hard time paying attention as people ask if I have ADD. I dont like my neck being touched at all. I prefer comfortable clothing. Anyone else relate in any way?

Yup. I'm 35 and relate to a lot of what you wrote. I don't flap arms or want to sleep with my mum though...
 
Yup. I'm 35 and relate to a lot of what you wrote. I don't flap arms or want to sleep with my mum though...

We all need relief and or release and comfort sometimes. Maybe that is a way she is expressing that need to relax? Did I say that Alright? I like the hammock idea someone on here mentioned! Wow! How great is that?!
 
We all need relief and or release and comfort sometimes. Maybe that is a way she is expressing that need to relax? Did I say that Alright? I like the hammock idea someone on here mentioned! Wow! How great is that?!
I only meant that they were the differences in our stories. No offence and no judgement.
I interpreted Jessica's post as wondering whether what she does is shared by anyone else. I wanted her to know that I could identify with some of what she wrote. Thought that would be comforting to know...
 
This thread is more for new members might be shy to introduce themselves.

No need to fear, you joined a great site. No rush to introduce yourself. Take the time you need. But once you are ready to introduce yourself, you will be greeted by many people.

Yours Truly,


Chilly Willy @The Penguin
Thank you. For months I simply read the newsletter email on this site. Never having all the time needed to look over a lot of emails. Something would always catch my eye and I'd read further. Never really getting too involved. The other day I decided to register. Since that time I've received some wonderful greetings and feel comfortable and part of something bigger. I want help the lives I can, and let them into my life to do the same.
 
Hello, everyone.

I was officially diagnosed.

I am very nice. Yes, people take advantage of me. I understand that situation as it happens to me too.

I prefer not to do the beauty salon as well. I am not interested in strangers who try to massage your scalp or neck... Yes, I would prefer any touch to be invited, on my own terms.

Yes, I understand how you could obsess and idealize a celebrity. (I might not win anyone over by admitting this?) But, I do not feel jealous? Does that mean something about me?

Thank you for listening. It is nice to meet all of you.
Welcome!
 
This thread is more for new members might be shy to introduce themselves.

No need to fear, you joined a great site. No rush to introduce yourself. Take the time you need. But once you are ready to introduce yourself, you will be greeted by many people.

Yours Truly,


Chilly Willy @The Penguin
Hi, I'm Jim. I just turned 62. I was having trouble in my relationship and met with a therapist for the first time in my life. She identified my problem instantly. I have been found a lot of reading and believe that I am an aspire. I am set for diagnostic testing in about 6 weeks. I have all ways considered myself to be the only sane person. Now I am struggling with this new perspective.
 
Hi, I'm Jim. I just turned 62. I was having trouble in my relationship and met with a therapist for the first time in my life. She identified my problem instantly. I have been found a lot of reading and believe that I am an aspire. I am set for diagnostic testing in about 6 weeks. I have all ways considered myself to be the only sane person. Now I am struggling with this new perspective.
Keep us posted what you find out in 6 weeks.
 
This thread is more for new members might be shy to introduce themselves.

No need to fear, you joined a great site. No rush to introduce yourself. Take the time you need. But once you are ready to introduce yourself, you will be greeted by many people.

Yours Truly,


Chilly Willy @The Penguin
 
I am Donna. Nice to meet you all. I hope i can learn some new things.
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Hello fellow Aspies, my name is Mike. I've been struggling with severe anxieties since I was 14 years old, and that's only the tip of the iceberg. It was sparked by a really bad bout of bronchitis; it started with just health anxieties, but it just kept on multiplying into so many others, and it's just been ruining my life. A lot. It prevents me from fully enjoying life and it ruins my relationships with people. I've never been able to manage it on my own, and I tried. My parents grew more and more desperate, just not knowing what to do. It led to many quarrels and arguments because I always just cycle over these anxious thoughts over and over again, seeking reassurance and never believing anyone when they try their best to calm me down. I get all sorts of intrusive thoughts entering my mind, each and every day. This is only the tip of the iceberg.

My entire life I've had trouble controlling my emotions, and this was way before the bronchitis. I tend to have impulsive outbursts of anger and end up hurting the feelings of the people I love. I've also had terrible social skills from the very start, very few friends and just keep feeling lonely all the time. I tend to drive people crazy with my anxieties, outbursts, and lack of social skills and I just push everyone away. I'm also extremely immature for my age, but that's actually fine with many folks. I also suffer from low self-esteem, which can get to the point of self-hatred much of the time. Anyway this is only an intro so I won't get into too much detail just yet.

After being unable to fight these inner demons and letting them ruin my relationships with people I decided to see a psychologist. That psychologist has been teaching how to manage my anxious thoughts - the anxieties are the dominant topic of discussion that I have with him, but I let him know about everything else. He thinks I have Asperger's but hasn't officially diagnosed me yet - for that I'd need to see a specialist. This man recommended that I join an online Aspie community, so here I am.

I'm thinking about posting in the forums and using the online chat, and I believe being a member of AspiesCentral will help me better manage my inner demons, in addition to weekly sessions with my psychologists. I just joined this site today and am eager to get things up and running. I'm really tired of living this life, and people always tell me that I'm a good guy - without me asking them to. I don't think I've even known anyone with Asperger's, but again I never had a lot of friends and oftentimes I'd be lonely for years. So guys, I'm very eager to participate on here and get more insight on my struggles.
 
Hello fellow Aspies, my name is Mike. I've been struggling with severe anxieties since I was 14 years old, and that's only the tip of the iceberg. It was sparked by a really bad bout of bronchitis; it started with just health anxieties, but it just kept on multiplying into so many others, and it's just been ruining my life. A lot. It prevents me from fully enjoying life and it ruins my relationships with people. I've never been able to manage it on my own, and I tried. My parents grew more and more desperate, just not knowing what to do. It led to many quarrels and arguments because I always just cycle over these anxious thoughts over and over again, seeking reassurance and never believing anyone when they try their best to calm me down. I get all sorts of intrusive thoughts entering my mind, each and every day. This is only the tip of the iceberg. My entire life I've had trouble controlling my emotions, and this was way before the bronchitis. I tend to have impulsive outbursts of anger and end up hurting the feelings of the people I love. I've also had terrible social skills from the very start, very few friends and just keep feeling lonely all the time. I tend to drive people crazy with my anxieties, outbursts, and lack of social skills and I just push everyone away. I'm also extremely immature for my age, but that's actually fine with many folks. I also suffer from low self-esteem, which can get to the point of self-hatred much of the time. Anyway this is only an intro so I won't get into too much detail just yet. After being unable to fight these inner demons and letting them ruin my relationships with people I decided to see a psychologist. That psychologist has been teaching how to manage my anxious thoughts - the anxieties are the dominant topic of discussion that I have with him, but I let him know about everything else. He thinks I have Asperger's but hasn't officially diagnosed me yet - for that I'd need to see a specialist. This man recommended that I join an online Aspie community, so here I am. I'm thinking about posting in the forums and using the online chat, and I believe being a member of AspiesCentral will help me better manage my inner demons, in addition to weekly sessions with my psychologists. I just joined this site today and am eager to get things up and running. I'm really tired of living this life, and people always tell me that I'm a good guy - without me asking them to. I don't think I've even known anyone with Asperger's, but again I never had a lot of friends and oftentimes I'd be lonely for years. So guys, I'm very eager to participate on here and get more insight on my struggles.
Welcome. I look forward to your posts.
 
Hi my name is Maraisa and my therapist told me I should check out this site. I am 19 and have been diagnosed with Aspergers since I was 9-10 years old. I live in LA and it mosly impairs my ability to make friends. Making friends has always been really difficult for me...
Hi, I know where you coming from in relation to making friends.This site is a great opportunity to start, good luck.
 
Hi. I'm Paul, 52yo gen-x, according to online tests etc I've self diagnosed myself with HFA but look forward to seeing a pdoc soon. People say I'm shy, I'm severely lacking in life experiences. I came here to find help and find friends who are like me.
 

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