Marvin
Well-Known Member
Seems to he a common problem between my NT family and I. Let me explain, when I communicate, I say what I mean and mean what I say. There is no disparity, no hidden agendas, no between the lines. Accuracy and consistency makes for simple and direct expression on my part. My family however pick at the non existent hidden meanings, and leap to unrelated conclusions, often getting offended along the way.
By contrast, when they communicate, what they mean, as opposed to what they meant to say, and to what they actually do say can all be different. At this point I am at fault for not picking up on their disparity and again they become offended.
Does anyone else have this issue?
By contrast, when they communicate, what they mean, as opposed to what they meant to say, and to what they actually do say can all be different. At this point I am at fault for not picking up on their disparity and again they become offended.
Does anyone else have this issue?