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  1. T

    At a stand still in a ND relationship.

    Hello all! I’m going to dive right in and get straight to the point. For the last eight months I have been involved with a wonderful, bright, funny, smart Aspie man. We are a gay couple (I use the word couple loosely). He has Aspergers and severe PTSD from combat in Afghanistan (diagnoses...
  2. BlueSky Aozora

    Special Qualification Courses for ASD before Marriage is highly needed?

    Okay this may seem too radical to be posted here, but this is my blog so anyway. Aspie/autism is okay and such, but the problem appears in marriage. In a marriage, the ASD will live with the partner 24/7. So it's impossible to mask. And another thing is, the ASD subconsciously actually want a...
  3. BlueSky Aozora

    How to Make a Place of Belonging for an Aspie, If He's Not Interested?

    That's hard! Without the aspie's cooperation, or if he's not interested in anything that the society there has, what to do?? When I asked him, he said to me, "Make one." Who's the one who need to MAKE that place of belonging for him? Is it me? How is that possible without his cooperation? The...
  4. BlueSky Aozora

    Aspie in Foreign Land and Two-Body Problem. Is there a meaning behind all these?

    Previously, since my Asperger husband sacrificed his research career to move to my developing country (where nobody here doing his particular field of research; but there are teams doing this in his developed country, he supposed to join the team, but he sacrificed it to move here.. so sad), he...
  5. N

    I need some good advice and experience please

    Hello there to everyone I'm quite new here and my name is nina. I would need some good advice or help from someone with experience or similar situation because i don't really know what to do... So here is my story im sorry if it is very long.. I promise i make it short... After being in A very...
  6. D

    Relationship with aspie bf

    You might not read it because it's long, also my english isn't best. But I just need an advice. I was in relationship with aspie for like 4 months. I didn't know he was aspie. After we had a few inconsistencies in our relationship, he told me about this syndrome and everything started to make...
  7. W

    NT male needs help understanding ASD wife

    I am a NT male and my wife has Aspergers. I love her more than anything, so much that I am reaching out on a forum! I need help and feel like I’m drowning trying to keep my marriage afloat! We can have the best time in the world and then the next second I don’t respond or do something in a way...
  8. S

    Can feelings change?

    Hello everyone. I am looking for some insight into my previous relationship. I am an NT and my partner was an aspie. We didn't work out. He told me he was not the right guy for me, and he could not give me what I wanted. He said sharing a bed was too hard for him. I tried to respect that the...
  9. A

    Need help meeting a girl with mild asperger's

    Hi, I'm a 15 year old guy and I've been chatting with this one girl since April. We've been planning to meet up and become a real couple for 7 months now but it's been really hard for her. She got a diagnosis for mild asperger's this Autumn and it's been torture for me. I love her and she says...
  10. mourn

    Socially Awkward NT dating Male w/ Aspergers HELP w/ the Silence

    [Very long, I’m sorry, but could really use some help] Hello all, So I’ve done research of my own, but having severe anxiety (I’m on medication) and depression I often forget to think rationally about things and I guess I’m just looking for reassurance or something. I’m NT for the most part...
  11. L

    Please help me with my BF with Aspergers

    Hi, my name is Grace and i do not have autism or anything on the spectrum. I just really need some advice for my boyfriend. He has Aspergers and we also have a distance relationship. I understand a little bit of it, but there is just some things i can't put my mind around. He is SO lazy like i...
  12. Verdandi

    Help me understand

    I tried talking to my ex so as to get some insight into his thoughts, but to no avail. I told him I would like to understand how he could go from all that seemingly deep affection to treating me like dirt and making me feel like a stranger; I tried inquiring about what made him uncomfortable; I...
  13. Verdandi

    Can I win him back?

    Hey.....I need some advice :( It's been a month since he decided to break up with me and I am a mess. My mental state has been degrading daily. He is friendly to me and we talk, but never about us. One day last week we accidentally met on the cycling lane, but he basically ran away and...
  14. Verdandi

    My relationship with my Aspie destroyed me

    I don't even know why I'm writing, I guess it's just to vent it. After our break-up, entirely his call, justified by his inability to cope with long-term social commitment and following a couple of excruciating months when I fel like I had to walk on eggshells all the time, we kept talking. He...
  15. G

    Husband self diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome

    Hi, I've been on disability S.S for many years now for organic mental disorders. In 2010 I was diagnosed with Social Anxiety. O.C.D and P.T.S.D. I believe I have general anxiety as well but can't remember if I was diagnosed with it or not. I've been married for 6 years and my husband just...
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