I find it fitting that the symbol for Autism is a puzzle piece. Not because “the pieces don’t fit”–I don’t think we’re broken, just different. But because being someone with Asperger’s/Autism Spectrum Disorder can be like being in a state of constant puzzlement. Add being a Mom, especially for the first time, into the mix, and you have the perfect recipe for confusion cake. (When you figure out what this tastes like, let me know!). To add to this confusion, there is very little information to help “Aspie” parents, even though there’s an abundance of info for parents OF Autistic children. Being a Mom on the Spectrum, this is very frustrating and disheartening, in a world where I already feel a little alienated.
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DISCLAIMER:
I am not a doctor, just a first-time mother. Advice on this blog should not replace advice from medical professionals. Please consult a doctor first and foremost for any medical issues you may encounter.
Also, I’m aware of the revisions to the DSM-5 manual which remove the diagnosis of “Asperger’s Syndrome”, however since Asperger’s is widely recognized and many have already received that particular diagnosis prior to the manual revision, the term will continue to be used in the blog.
Veranuem is a no-nonsense mom, Christian and an artist with Asperger’s, living in the Midwestern Ozarks with her patient husband, spirited daughter, and crazy cat. When she isn’t covering “taboo” topics on her blog, she can be found drawing, wiping drool off of things, and peeling notes for her next post off of a glue trap (at 3 A.M.).
I just came across your essay on being a first time mom. I had many of the same experiences. I wasn’t diagnosed until my ASD son was already 9 years old. There were always similarities in he and I but I just chalked it up to being his mother. It was a blog like yours that led me to think I was on the spectrum too. I am. My life suddenly made sense. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
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Hi there Sara, thanks for reading! I’m glad you found something that helped you understand yourself better. That was a great relief when it happened to me. It seems more and more adults are finally receiving their diagnosis, and hopefully some understanding with it. I was lucky to be diagnosed at age 15, before motherhood, but many don’t find out until much later. Hopefully increased awareness of Autism in adults, and people like you and I sharing experiences, will change this! Do you recall the name of the blog that helped you? I’m collecting resources and I’d love to check it out.
Also, if you would like to share any of your experiences in a guest post, I’d love to hear them! You can email me at thepuzzledmom@gmail.com if you’re interested. 🙂
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Hi, I don’t know if you do the whole blogging award thing but, if you do, there’s one here for you: http://aspernauts.com/2015/12/08/blogger-recognition-award/ Kx
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Hmm, I didn’t know there was a blogger’s award or that you had nominated this blog! Thank you for bringing this to my attention (and for the nomination) Kerry, I will check it out. 🙂
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